Fly

     

 If I told you I can fly would you believe me? Perhaps you would say yes and assume I mean I can fly by getting on an airplane and traveling to some distant location. Truth be told I really can do both. I have learned to fly not with wings but rather with my whole body. I use ever muscle, the most important one being my brain in this act of flying. 

      It's never easy. The walls that block this process are many which is why having the ability to fly is not enough. You also need the will to fly. It's a belief in yourself that takes time to develop and patience is your best friend. 

      Sometimes you are your worst enemy. It seems the harder you try the more elusive it is the feel the flow of flight. We all have to deal with stress in our lives. In order to fly you have to first relax into a panic. You need to put yourself through a situation that is stressful and learn to be relaxed while doing it. Flying is stressful and in order to fly the stress is what you need.

      So you see it's a conundrum with the only way of dealing with it and not go crazy is to have balance. Having a balance in your life usually involves variety. It is the spice of life or at least that's what I've heard. This flying and if you haven't already concluded from the picture is swimming. It is the frosting on the cake for me. The cake being a balanced life and the swimming being o so sweat in the right amount. The frosting is always the best part of the cake never let anyone tell you different. But too much will make you sick that's why having a balance is important. It's very alien when your in the water and that's part of the fun. It's a calm cooling feeling which refreshes and restores. I guess that's why baptism is being totally submerged and coming out a new. I plan on refreshing as long as I can and never forget how to fly.  

"FLY"

-Barton 

Marathons and Beyond...

DATE	TIME (MINUTES)	DISTANCE (MILES)	PACE (MINUTES/MILE)	NOTES
Sat, Sep 26, 2009	232.01	26.20	8.86	Hamptons marathon 3:52:01 net
Sat, May 1, 2010	221.01	26.20	8.44	Long Island marathon 3:41:01 watch
Sun, Oct 31, 2010	252.02	26.20	9.62	Cape cod marathon 4:12:02 net
Sat, Jun 4, 2011	260.50	26.20	9.94	Gods country marathon 4:20:50 time
Sat, Sep 24, 2011	230.39	26.20	8.79	Hamptons marathon 3:50:39 net
Sat, Sep 29, 2012	240.36	26.20	9.17	Hamptons marathon 4:00:36 net
Sat, May 11, 2013	400.30	30.00	13.34	Long Island greenbelt 50K 6:40:30
Sun, Jun 9, 2013	228.30	26.20	8.71	Lake placid marathon 3:48:30
Sat, Sep 28, 2013	234.21	26.20	8.94	Hamptons marathon 3:54:21 net
Sat, Oct 12, 2013	377.55	30.00	12.59	Tesla hertz 50K 6:17:55

Reading and Writing

Getting the right mindset on anything you are doing is fundamental. If your not focused on what you are doing it is impossible to do it well. My mind trends to jump from idea to idea and topic to topic. Getting focused is a skill that takes work and effort on the part of the individual. I found that reading and writing helps to reset that random, haphazard mind that I sometimes have. It occurs when I have too many things on my mind, which is usually the case. Getting absorbed in writing and reading is well worth the effort. Sometimes however it can be a challenge depending on the setting your in.

     A quiet place can be a blessing on occasions. It removes all the clutter around so you won't be so easily distracted. Once you really get into the book or your writing the setting will matter less. The goal is to become engrossed in what your doing. One of my favorite sayings is, "when washing dishes just wash dishes." Even though dish washing may not be fun. However, if you really focus on it and do your best you will find that even a simple task like washing the dishes can be fun and fulfilling. Your mindset is the most important thing for your happiness and satisfaction.  

      Another good thing to do which involves writing is making lists. When you write something down you are making it your destiny to do it. So making a list of things you want to or need to get accomplished is a great way to do them without tossing the idea back and forth in your head. When you toss the idea around in your head it usually does just that, go back and forth and nowhere else. 

      When you write it out whether it is a list, journal entry, short story or any other form of writing it sets that thought more firmly in your mind. It makes it solid and a part of you. You can use this for your benefit. For example, let's say you want to stop drinking beer ( I don't intend too.) but for illustrative purposes let's use that.

      So you would write an essay about how you plan on and how you want to stop drinking beer. You get it out there on the interweb and thereby hold yourself accountable. You could also include all the benefits of not drinking beer such as... Well can't really think of any except not having too much and acting stupid. 

      That's all it really takes. Sometimes you may want to do something but forget about it. We can only have one thought at a time and if the one we want to do isn't ingrained in our head we would soon forget about it and move on to something else. Stupid monkey minds we have. So reading and writing something out helps in that it etches into our brains the topic, thought or idea we want to remember. The more we write about it the more important it becomes to us. Maybe that's why teachers used to make us write and rewrite certain things on the blackboard. Well at least that's what we did back I my day. Not that I was the one writing on the blackboard. That task was typically reserved for those who needed to not repeat a previous action they did. 

      The written word is truly a magical thing. For me it helps me formulate thoughts and opinions in a way that I couldn't vocalize. So I guess I better just keep writing. As well as think ( writing internalized) before I speak.

"don't mind the foot in mouth."

-Barton

Socmed

                 Soccer Meditation

      So one of the things I have been doing recently is doing what I call, "soccer meditation". I always like to do pull ups at some point in the day, every day. A couple years back I installed a pull up bar in my apartment between my bedroom door posts to help me accomplish this daily goal. I was thinking about installing another one around the yard so I could be outside when I needed to not be distracted by all the things going on inside. Instead of that I have been doing one better. After work on my way home (actually it is a little out of the way) I stop by a youth soccer field and do pull ups on the unused soccer goals. 

      I call these, "soccer meditations" because it's not really a work out but rather an excuse to get outside and breath the chilly and invigorating autumn air. I park the car, get out and start my timer. I run easy to the far soccer field that's not being used and do 15 pulls on one and run to the other and do the same. I do a minimum of 60 pull ups and some push ups in between the last set. I do this all with a headlight on cause of the darkness being so overbearing this time of year. I finish up the soccer meditation with an easy run around all the sports field followed by some easy stretching. Easy easy easy is the key. I don't want to make this turn into a workout but rather just a way to get the blood flowing and relax my brain a tad before the ride home. 

      Besides of the benefit of being outside and breathing the fresh, crisp air I've also believe it has help me prevent an injury. During the week I wear a set of Merrell trail shoes that are basically a strip of leather with laces. Doing these quick 1 mile runs in these barefoot shoes on the slightly uneven soccer turf I feel help move the foot around in a variety of ways. Variety is the spice of life. Instead of the same motion over and over again which is a recipe for injury. The uneven surface forces me to use different muscles that would be not otherwise be used on a run on the roads. 

      This variety that is found on grass and trails is one reason I prefer the woods over the streets. There's also a sense of peace that isn't the same as it is when you hit the roads. Having not to deal with the crazy Long Island drivers is another benefit of searching out trails and fields.  

      But the real key for me to really enjoy these little skips is the fresh, chilly air. Breathing is enjoyable not merely something I do on a regular basis. The coolness seems to revitalize my body and energize my brain or visa versa. It's just one more excuse for me to be outside. It's also amazing to look up at the night sky and see the stars. I don't really get a chance to see it by me cause of all the light pollution. It was exceptionally starry the day I went there when they canceled all the youth soccer practice. I really needed my headlight that particular night but the solitude was a nice needed retreat, even if it was only for 15-20 minutes. That's how long it usually takes me before I end with some stretching and make the ride back home. I have a feeling this socmed may get extended in the future knowing my way of overdoing things. But for now it's a nice way to start my commute back home.  

"Remember to breathe"

-Barton 

Rocky point ultra 2013

    I guess it's fitting that I should rewrite this race report considering I didn't finish the race distance I signed up for. Stupid iPhone application ate my words and i was almost finished with the essay. Anyways, I don't consider it a DNF but rather a PDNF meaning a purposely did not finish. My major reason being I'm going to florida on a real family vacation and didn't want to ruin it by getting hurt beforehand. I was also experiencing some IT band/right knee issues during the run in the beginning. It went away but it was still on the back of my mind. Well enough with my excuses on why I didn't complete the 50 miler. 

       I still managed to run a 50K (30 miles) which is still awesome and I was a lot less beat up than after my road marathons. That's why trails beat roads all day long.  Besides the 50 miler there was also an assortment of other distances with the highlight being the 100 miler that started before sunrise. All runners no matter what distance had a cut off time on Sunday at 12 noon. So it was a whole weekend of epic running.

      I drove to the waldbaums parking lot on the north shore of Long Island early in the A.M. I was extra early as usual so I wondered around I bit and got another cup of coffee until it was time for me to get my drop bag and go to the start/finish.  The race consisted of a 10 mile loop with an aid station at the start/finish and around the 5 mile mark. Loop courses can always be a challenge cause there is the option of stopping anytime. Don't listen, eat something, keep moving. Words I hopefully will remember next year. The race for the 50 milers started at 7:30 in the pleasantly breezy autumn air. I started off with a red underarmor heat gear as my base and a target long sleeve jersey over it which I tied around me at the aid station cause I was getting hot in it. Got to remember to put my race bib on my shorts. As you can see from the above picture that's what the majority of the runners in my group did. 

      The aid stations were awesome and the encouragement was helpful as well. Especially the one near the five mile mark with the typical beer drinking Harley Davidson biker guy with sleeve tattoos. So I had to stop and talk with him for a bit each time. He didn't know if the hammer gels had caffeine but he promised me beer later. I was not really rested or tapered for this race but I did what I could. Note to self : don't get shots before races. The tetanus shot I got Thursday for opening up my foot on the pointy end of a hammer finally hit my right arm. It felt like someone took a hammer to it. I was Surprised I swam on Friday without feeling anything. 

      So needless to say I was not in my best race condition. That's ok cause I consider races as fun and tend (or try to at least) to focus on the journey, or in other-words the training lifestyle. The moment. It's nice to do what you love with others at times and that's the allure of races for me. I love meeting new people and learning new things as much as anyone else. An the encouragement and support you receive from complete strangers is an experience like none other. 

     The best thing about trail ultras is that it lacks a lot of the egotistical and competitive nature of common road marathons. Ultra marathons feel like your more a part of a team than in competition with each other. The whole goal being to help and encourage your teammates to reach the finish. In my case for this race I greatly appreciated the encouragement from a guy doing a 100 and. Girl named Lauren who said one line to get me to do one more lap to make it 30 miles. She said after talking with her the the guy a bit, "we can do it, this guys doing a 100." She then took off so I felt compelled to follow. I'm not quitting if she's not. So I talked to her and a couple other runners in are pack that we formed until I got my energy back when I then of course took off. I reached the finish line feeling like doing another loop but I controlled myself for once. Kind of wish I didn't but I know it was the right decision. 6 hours 17 minutes and 55 seconds was my official time for a total of three loops out of five I completed. Not bad for a pre vacation race. But then again I don't believe in vacations, they are a ghost to me. That's another story. All in all a pretty good event and hopefully more to come in the near future. 

"Aid to aid"

- Barton - 

Hamptons marathon 2013

    

 They say the fourth time is the charm. Actually they say it's the third but who is counting? This was my fourth time running the hamptons marathon and as always an exciting experience. So what have I learned from running this race? 

      Number 1: Don't worry about your time. We are always looking to improve ourselves be it looks, personality, and in the case with runners are speed. I have never gone out too fast and, 'blew up' as they say. I learned from fellow runners advice. I treated the marathon day as a reward for all he training I have done to get there. Of course if I felt good towards the end I, like any runner, push it. 

      Number 2: make friends. It seems no matter where you run if someone is running next to you the conversation should be upbuilding. I usually start by commenting on a piece of my fellow runners attire. Usually the shoes. The conversation jumps to all different topics due to the rapid blood flow streaming to our brains. I try to remember my fellow runners names so I can call them by name after the race is done. Also because I think it's very important to remember and use peoples names. 

      Number 3: "this to shall pass."At some point it's going to get hard and your gonna want to quit. Just go to the next telephone pole and remember the quote, "this to shall pass." It will help you remind yourself that the low point will pass. You can use it as a montra and keep repeating it in your head to your breathing and footsteps. It helps me.

      Number 4... Most important. Have Fun. If your mindset is to have fun and make friends your race will be a success even if you don't reach the finish line in the time you wanted. Learning not to take yourself too seriously will help in all areas of your life and help you to be in the moment, which can often be a challenge in this crazy world. So remember to have fun. 

      There are countless other lessons that I have learned but I'll leave it at these four considering it is my fourth time running the hamptons marathon. This year I came in at 3:54:21 with a 8:59 min\mile pace. I was 96 out of 335 marathoners ----12 out of 30 in my age group----60 out of 183 male participants JOHN INGLESE number 237 age 30 sex M FARMINGVILLE NY 56:18 ---1:58:16 ---3:54:21 ---8:57 ---3:55:07. Not to bad and didn't destroy myself. My mom drove us to the start a little after four thirty in the morning. We stopped for some coffee at 7-11 and I had that and my banana with sunflower butter when we finally parked on a street by the school. I then proceeded to get my race bib and wonder around and prepare myself mentally. My mom, being like me, can't just stand there and do nothing so she volunteered (Doug Peterson!) I wasn't my talkative self this morning, it happens. The race started with me noticing that there were a lot of short runners this year. I chatted up a little bit but not much during the run. Just stayed in my own head. Took in half a cliff bar and three Gu's during the run. Along with water and Gatorade. Especially Gatorade when my stomach was acting up. Really needed the salt! 

      Besides that everything went smoothly. The scenery was beautiful as it always is by the water anywhere you go. I went through the typical ups and downs that the race holds out to all runners whether they like it or not. One more important thing I have learned as a runner and I'll stop it at number five. 

      Number 5 = No matter how much you are struggling always give the illusion of confidence. Running promotes confidence but we all get tired and can lose that confidence in ourselves. If we fake that confidence you can trick yourself into being confident. I call it, "the runners lifehack." 

     I reached the finish line hearing my mom to my right yell out and then hearing the announcer call out my name,"Paul Inglese." So it turned out to be Paul's first marathon I guess. So after I got my metal and my chocolate milk we eventually got settled back at the race vehicle, my old, now my moms Xtrerra. I had really bad right ankle soreness\ strain after the race especially walking around sag harbor. The corner bar was as it always is, amazing. The Reuben and calamari were the perfect post race meal along with some montauk driftwood on tap. Too good!! 

      The day flew by like it always does. Once the race is over, it's over. I was glad my coach decided to come with me this year. I can be a really pain in the butt especially with all the happy/ crazy running chemicals moving around inside me. So four hamptons  marathons down and hopefully another one next year.

"Remember the Mango"

-Barton-

Football 2013

      ( Rugby football)

      On one of my swims I came to thinking about how much football is like Medieval times when there was wars and kings. Just like in times past rulers wanted to occupy as much territory as possible. If that meant going to war with opposing rulers, so be it. Football is the same principle. Your team tries to occupy territory that the opposing team  is trying to defend. Both war and football were to obtain glory and prove superiority. 

      So we humans have been interested in violence and power for a long time, especially here in America. Football being so popular here that sometimes it's the fans who can be more violent than what is going down on the field. I blame it on the violent atmosphere. Well that and alcohol.

      Don't get me wrong I like football. Especially happy finding out the jets just beat Tampa 18 - 17. I love the athleticism of the game. It's kind of like body building meets running with strategy involved. All things I love to do. I love to beat myself up and push my limits. But for me the only opponent I have is myself. Or the occasional runner in a race who is wearing a dress. No way I can let that person beat me. 

   One reason I really like football is that I relate football to real life. You are the quarterback of your own life.The truth is that we live in a violent world, now way around it. The quarterback likewise is in a violent world measuring 120.0 yd x 53.3 yd or 6400 yd² which is the dimensions of an American football field. Not to be confused with a pitch which is what the field is called in soccer. You being the quarterback of your life requires that you know the plays or in other words your actions. Being self aware and also aware of your surroundings is essential in being a great quarterback. You of course need a good team consisting of friends, family, and people that impact your life. Even an elite quarterback can fail miserably if his team is not up to par. Even if he has the best team possible he can have an off game. Learning and adapting come with experience on the field. When we learn for our mistakes and make wise decisions we benefit. One wise choice is that despite the team we have been given we need them. A quarterback cannot win the game by himself. We need to do the best we can with what we have but we also need to trust and rely on others. It's a violent world just like its a violet field when the game of football is in play. We need all our talents and skills but we need a team and react appropriately for the given situation. Isn't football great? That's another reason we need good coaching to improve and become a better quarterback of our life. It's very difficult to figure it out by ourselves and good guidance is a big help. Only if we believe it. Belief in the guidance and counsel is only of benefit if we use and apply it. Ultimately it is our choice when the game is on. There are plenty of options for us to consider and a cool head is needed in order no to be overwhelmed. In the game of football the quarterback can give the ball to a teammate or choice to run it himself. An his team mates are constantly being changed. Sometimes an important player gets hurt and can prove to be a detriment to the teams overall performance. 

      We will meet countless interesting and unique people that come on to our own ,"field." Some will be on our side, others on the opposing side. Sometimes as you begin to learn about them it may be hard to tell which side they choose to go to. Eventually it becomes clear if you the QB are aware of your surroundings. Never forget the people you are close with and try to maintain that bond. A QB always has his go to guys. Guys he can trust to help bail him and the team out in a critical moment when the stakes are high. Trusting someone can be a hard thing to do sometimes but is a necessity in order to accomplish the task sometimes. 

     As with life you never know how the game of football is going to turn out. There are too many variables to consider and you can be overwhelmed by it. A good QB knows to be in the moment no matter what moment he is in. You can only handle one moment at a time and we can easily forget that. The plays change but the game stays the same. Adapting to the changes is a key component in winning the game. So adapt and train and learn from your mistakes. 

"Everyday is the Super Bowl."

-Barton